Dua sen...(Two cents)

If you think about it, it doesn't pay to go out of you way to help someone(except in the case of emergency/life and death situation). The ones whom close to will try as much to minimize the trouble they have caused for the help you willingly volunteered. Learn to say 'No' and be content. You time with family is much more precious. Nobody else matters more than your family. And close friends are family too.